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How I'm Healing from Sexual Assault

Hey girl hey, this topic is going to be quite serious and I hope that through reading this you feel less alone, more heard, and realize...

He's So Good to Me

It’s so beautiful to be in a space with a man who respects me. He listens. Ask questions. Always editing to learn. Respects my...

I was a 19-year-old's side chick!

Girl...here are the facts of the case. I met him through coworkers at an event. Nobody knew exactly how old he was. My guess was 21 --...

New Apartment

I'm sure you have all heard Ari Lennox’s debut album Shea Butter Baby by now, and if you haven't, please go turn it on! This entry was...

Our Time

Scripture tells us that there’s a time and season for everything. Old folks tell us that if we want God to laugh, we should tell Him our...

My Time

I truly reconciled with the end of my first real relationship and gave new relationships a half ass try. Eventually, I realized that for...

It's All Love

So, I got cheated on. Excuse me? Huh? Girl!? Yes, I knowwww. I’m feeling real bamboozled right now. *DEEEEEEEEP. HEAVY. SIGH.* I was with...

My #MeToo Moment: We Were Just Friends

The summer going into sophomore year, a boy who was a class above me had slid in the DMs and I didnʼt think much about it, but I thought...

If You Don't Vote, I'm Judging You

It's not about loving America, it's about taking some responsibility over where you live. To me, regardless of if you have the legal...

Desperately Seeking Shrink

I need to find a therapist. Between post-grad blues, ending years-long college relationships, dealing with anxiety after a freak car...

There's a Disconnect

Maybe I missed it. I remember hearing about bills. All of my bigs talked about Sallie Mae the way parents talk about the boogey man. I've...

If I Spend Another Dollar on Food...

After a long weekend of sushi dates, happy hours, and endless mimosas at brunch, I open my bank of America app to see just how much...

I Need That White Man Confidence

I am the shit. I know I am! But sometimes it doesn't feel like it. Sometimes it's really hard to feel like the accomplishments I've made...

Finding My Groove

I'm a pretty self aware chick, thank you very much. I know what I'm good at, I know what I like to do, but I haven't found something that...

A Brown Girl's Dreams

In my wildest dreams, I would be true to myself and start to live the life I want for myself. In my wildest dreams, I see myself laying...

It's Not the Devil, the Enemy is You

What if I told you that you were not under attack from the Devil? That God wasn’t even testing you? So often, church is guilty of pushing...

What Would Jesus Do with a Building Fund?

I haven’t read the bible front to back but I have read most of it. In all my reading I never got the vibe that Jesus owned any property....

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